Question and Answer with Taiwanese Ladies.

WHY DO SOME TAIWANESE GIRLS LEAVE FOREIGNERS?
That’s because the men often hurt them emotionally. Sometimes Taiwanese girls get involved thinking it will be something exotic and dream-like, but it ends up nothing like they thought. In the end, they realize that some of them just want to get laid.

DO TAIWANESE GIRLS LEAVE FOREIGNERS DUE TO FAMILY PRESSURE?
Yes, but that’s not the main reason. If the Taiwanese girl really likes the foreigner the parents often will support them.

DO TAIWANESE GIRLS ABANDON FOREIGNERS WITHOUT SAYING GOODBYE?
Yes, for a few reasons. First, the parents of the girl are usually very conservative and traditional and won’t allow their daughter to marry a foreigner whose culture is much different than theirs. Communication or lack thereof, is also a big factor. It could also be that they’re not sure if they want to be with this man. Maybe it’s just a fling with someone from another country that wasn’t meant to get too personal.

Another common reason is that the Taiwanese girl is waiting too long for her man to propose. Then one day she wakes up and realizes that no matter how long she waits, he won’t settle down. He also could have cheated.

WHY DO YOU THINK FOREIGNERS BREAK UP WITH TAIWANESE GIRLS?
I think foreigners don’t plan on getting married to Taiwanese girls, they just want to have fun during their stay. As they say, “getting a quickie” is easy for them so they just keep doing it and think they can get any girl they want. They think, “Why not just enjoy the moment?” and become a player.

A Taiwanese girl who has dated a foreigner before usually starts out with little expectations, since she’s dating a foreigner who could leave at any time. At first she lets time take its course, but once she gets involved deeper she’ll begin to think about the future with the foreigner. Although, I think it’s like that in the west, too.

DO YOU ALSO THINK IT DEPENDS ON THE FOREIGNER?
Yes. The couple must have the same expectations in order for the relationship to work. Unfortunately, cultural differences get in the way. When a Taiwanese girl is sure of any man, she wants to marry him as soon as possible. In the west, couples have a tendency to grow into marriage.

HOW DO TAIWANESE GIRLS HANDLE ‘BEING DUMPED?’
Break ups are different depending on the personality. No matter what culture, you’re going to hear horror stories about break-ups. There is always a period of fighting towards the end of any relationship, but when the love is gone, it’s gone. The smart way is break up in peace and just remember the good times I think it’s best to let it go and find your true happiness. Just say, “that’s your loss.” IT!

Internet technology has bloomed in every nook and corner of the world and it is not remote to the country of Taiwan too. Online dating sites are becoming more common everywhere and you can find a number of Taiwan women in these sites. Just create a profile for yourself and mention your interests. You can find many Taiwan girls who might interest you. You can also meet Taiwan women in chat rooms and other such dating forums. Taiwan women are very kind and loving and you can approach them easily.

However remember that not all Taiwan women are educated and aware of the computer and dating world. Also many beautiful Taiwan girls live in rural areas where you cannot expect net connection to exist. One way in which you can get to meet such girls is to take a vacation. Taiwan is a very beautiful country and you would naturally like the place a lot. By choosing to travel the country, you will have more than a purpose fulfilled. Transport being affordable in the country, you can travel in comfort and get to see many Taiwan girls as well. Taiwan women acquaint well and with time, they become very friendly with you.

There are many cheap flights to Taiwan and you can have cheap and comfortable accommodation arranged for you by travel agencies. You can get all this done online so that you can keep your trip short and need not have to waste money looking for a good hotel to stay. If you find the option of traveling to the country a bit costly, you can choose the alternative of taking a look at the print ads. Taiwan women feature in print ads and since they are invariably good and loyal, you will have no regrets certainly.

Taiwan women generally find older men very attractive. They hate when men lie. They have good English speaking skills and foreigners will not be finding it difficult to communicate with them. Many Taiwan Singles get offended when you ask them to sleep with you before marriage. So be little careful when you date them.

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Even the act of approaching them itself feels uncomfortable, creepy, inappropriate and out of bounds. I KNOW it is not my imagination or due to any lack of bravery on my part either. It’s like the vibe of the culture is constantly telling me “Mind your own business. Do not talk to girls that you see. Keep your distance and leave them alone. Communication is for business-related purposes only. We exist to work, not socialize.”

So what can you do? How do you get an introverted, repressed, closed, and stuck up girl to open up? (pardon my frankness)

Is there a socially acceptable Chinese way of approaching or chatting up girls in Taiwan?

2. How do you even tolerate living in Taiwan for long? Every time I go out I feel so depressed and gloomy. It’s awful. I am very sensitive and feel vibes and energy around me very acutely. Everywhere I go in Taiwan, I see these highly REPRESSED cold stuck up closed inhibited faces everywhere. Their body language is of total introversion and inhibition, especially the young females. It makes them almost INHUMAN, like robots or zombies who have been “altered” like in some scary sci fi horror movie! That gets me down, just like the antisocial, anti-stranger, cliquish mentality of the US does. So how the hell do you tolerate that here? I could not live here for very long, despite the good food and modern conveniences.

3. Why do none of the expat blogs about Taiwan mention the above? Is it cause it’s taboo to say these things even though they’re true? Or is it because Taiwan tends to attracted reserved introverted expats as well, so they don’t notice anything abnormal? Or are they too polite to be honest, so they only say nice positive things to avoid offending anyone?

I can’t imagine any average Joe in the US coming to Taiwan and fitting in. Taiwan seems to be a workaholic culture, not a fun, relaxed, passionate culture. But of course, it’s taboo to mention that, because you aren’t supposed to see things the way they are.

Can you give me serious answers to these questions, with no bull or politically correct claptrap?

Thank you.

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The secret behind getting Taiwanese girls is being nice to her, spend more time with her because 99% of Taiwanese girls are shy. When she really know you more and find out that she likes knowing you. When u ask her out then she will consider you.But it is very difficult to get a Taiwanese girl friend because most of them are already engaged. That is from my own point of view.

Knowing about taiwan culture is not really a requirement. They will have more fun trying to teach you their culture. And replying back to them that you still don’t understand. Then seeing their cute frustrasted looks moaning “Fan se le!”..

Maybe i can offer some tips for ya.Taiwanese girls are a bit less open minded than girls from other countries especially America. Some of them are pretty open minded which means it depends. Just don’t hide your feeling up,You speak out,You get chance,You don’t,Never have a chance.Good luck man.You will get what you want eventually.

Actually ,most Taiwanese girls like western men. You don’t have to do anything special. Just be what you used to be.

As we know that taiwan  is a very traditional country and Taiwan girl are very conversational , so talking about something dare is not polite and also will scare girls away. In Taiwan girls mind most of foreign men are leisure about sex. I don’t know whether it is right or not. but online so many white guys do scared me a lot.

Some Taiwan girls are so uptight. That if you ask them out she’ll probably won’t even say a word and ignore you. And turn their head and their eyes looking on the side giving a the face like you ain’t worth anything. But if you can chase her friend and actually get her. The first girl who was so uptight would start feeling regret like she lost her chance.

I don’t like uptight conventional girls anyway. Some of them have bad temper and get frustrated all the time. You may think they are spoiled but its just the way that some Taiwan girls are. They can go chew vinegar 吃醋 on a daily basis!

Better stick to more open friendly Taiwan girls, sadly they are mostly overseas Taiwan girls, but lucky some local ones are just as friendly. But sometimes you don’t want them to be too friendly. Some of them start singing their Taiwan opera and OMG it can break your ears!

Taiwan is a country which has a rapid major economic growth. A lot of foreign peoples come to Taiwan to work every year. Although English Language is not a major language in that country, but recently a lot of English Teacher come to Taiwan. English Teacher from foreign country like western country, still got problems to talk and have a relationship with Taiwanese people especially the Taiwanese girls. Many of thems have difficulty while talking with Taiwanese girl.

Here is one letter posted by foreing ESL Teacher in Taiwan who want to date with a local Taiwanese girl. He found difficulty in finding college graduates girl, however the most chiense girls do not beleive in monogamous serial dating.

This is the letter and the answer to the question about problems in relationship between foreing men and Taiwanese girls. Completely taken from one site.

Original Question

Dear Dr. Greg

It seems many of the ESL teachers in Taiwan are a bit, not sure how to say this, older. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but one of the draws of Taiwan seems to be Taiwanese girls are far more open to dating older, western men than girls are in Korea, where I am currently working.

My question is what if you aren’t older? I’ll be working in Taiwan at the age of 24. I may look 30 but word spreads soon enough. In Korea men my age are given a certain amount of slack, they are expected to be drinking and chasing women (and seeing hookers) on a regular basis. In Taiwan, will I be held to a higher standard as a foreigner, or will I be able to “act my age?”

In addition, would it be considered wrong for a man of 24 to have a girlfriend older than him? In Korea this is very rare.

Thank you

Answer

Traditional Taiwanese girls and their families believe that a future husband should be older, smarter, taller, and better educated than his wife. The acceptable age difference is, generally speaking, two to four years older. As is true throughout Asia, it would be very unusual for a Taiwanese girl to feel comfortable dating and marrying a younger man. It happens, especially if the age difference is not greater than a year or two, but it is rare.

Taiwanese girls who deliberately seek much older men generally do so to compensate themselves for having had ambivalent or terribly conflictual, often aggressive, relationships with their fathers. Although this applies to many Taiwanese girls, perhaps most, it doesn’t apply to all. In addition, the preference for older men is typically overrepresented by girls raised by poor families in the countryside and, perhaps, girls who have a history of being cheated on by younger men. The hope is that by choosing a much older man, he is less likely to grow bored with her and chase younger women as time goes by.

As a rule, highly Westernized girls born and raised in international cities such as taipei, taichung, and, to a lesser extent, tainan—especially if their relationships with their fathers were relatively healthy—will not prefer much older men.

At your age of 24, you shouldn’t have any difficulty finding recent college graduates, 22- and 23-years of age, who feel it is time to start looking for a boyfriend (read husband). The problem you might run into in second and third tier cities is that most Taiwanese girls do not believe in monogamous serial dating. That is, most are definitely not looking for just “friends with benefits” or casual sex (see unit on Dating Etiquette, Sex, and Relationships in Guide). Having just written that, and especially if you will be teaching in an international city, you will find many girls who are just interested in dating in the Western sense of that word.

If I were 24 years again and interested in just dating Taiwanese girls and “acting my age,” I’d be limiting my job search to Taipei and taichung only–as a way to maximize my chances of finding those type of opportunities.

Best of luck to you.

Taiwanese girl is famous for her oriental beauty and special tradition. Perhaps you are one of the men who have already heard about the beauty of Taiwanese girls but continue wondering what makes Taiwanese women that special. Here are some reasons for dating a Taiwanese Girl that may give the answer to your question:

1. Taiwanese girls are renowned for their beauty.
Taiwanese stand out among Taiwanese women in terms of charm and femininity.

2. Taiwanese women are naturally romantic, loving and caring.
They are not only beautiful women but a delight to be around because of the famous Asian disposition and personality. Many asians have instilled in them since birth a sense of honor called Delikadesa. It is this sense of Delikadesa that gives them such fine admirable qualities you just won’t find in ladies of the western world. You will never find a proper Asian lie, cheat, or steal – it will bring shame upon her and her family.

3. Taiwanese women put family first before money.
To the Asian, family will always remain a great priority. The Asian, whom many would consider as having come from a relatively poor country, will view the close loving bonds of the Asian Family as her wealth. The Asian women are more willing to sacrifice career than a family.

4. Taiwanese are religious.

5. Asian women believe in a one-man one-woman relationship
An interesting fact is that there is no “absolute divorce” in Taiwan. There is only “relative divorce” in a form of “legal separation” (husband and wife are only separated from bed and board but marriage remains in full force). Marriage in such a country where they simply do not have divorce laws is always considered a life long commitment. asians welcome their responsibilities towards keeping her husband happy and strive to never lose his attention. Luckily for her most Asian Ladies are often petite tender beautiful warm loving creatures you will never tier of giving your affection to.

6. Taiwanese girls are understanding, patient and supportive.
Even loud verbal arguments or fighting would be to de-face her self and most asians would simply never engage in any such acts. This soft spoken, quiet, understanding nature of the Asian Ladies is a desired trait many of them strive towards.

7. Taiwanese are optimistic and have flexible personality.
They have a great sense of humor.

8. Taiwanese women are excellent home keepers.
Taiwanese ladies equate domestic responsibility with being a good wife (or potentially a good wife). Taiwan practices “patriarchal” form of society and traditionally husbands are providers while wives are meant to stay home to keep the family in order and look after the children.
The Asian Lady’s home is a great source of pride for her. For the Asian girl to yell in her home is to de-face her home so you will never find her screaming or breaking dishes.

9. Taiwanese girls are well educated.
The Taiwan culture places a huge emphasis on a college education. An environment of importance towards education and pride in accomplishment at school is instilled in the asian’s family.

10. Offers very high respect to partners or provider in the family.
Some, actually many who marry these Asian beauties, swear they make the best wives in the world, not only beautiful, but loyal, loving and faithful past death.

11.Taiwanese-American marriages are more successful than American-American marriages.
It is interesting to note that Taiwanese girls – American men marriages arranged through dating services, such as , would appear to have a lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole. The divorce rate of these marriages is 20% while the standard American- American marriage of today has about a 40% chance of divorce, though the statistics vary wildly according to which source you use.

Most taiwan women are very much cute and fantastic and they can easily be impressed. You should try to collect and enhance the knowledge of their culture before dating them. When getting involved in any relationship with Taiwan women you have to ensure that you stay alert as West has a different set of cultures as compared to Taiwan. When trying to date taipei personals it may not be a difficult task, but it is important that you be well prepared so you can maintain a long term relationship, as Taiwan women certainly are not interested in developing a short term relationship with men. You have to try and treat them with respect and learn more about their culture.

So if you want to get into well maintained relationship with taipei women than it is better to opt for mutual relationship. You can try to get into discussions with them and if you are searching for them online then you can try and make better use of chat tool before asking for telephone contacts. Try adding little bit of humor to your relationship as it may take it a long way. Avoid praising beauty more often as it is important that she feels comfortable in your company. When speaking of taiwan dating
women, you have to keep in mind that Taiwan women are very free, so they won’t mind even if you are speaking to other people or even to other girls. You can in fact try to gather a few friends in your circle and develop relationship with them. This is also one of the best ways to try and talk to taiwan women freely and let her get into conversation with you.

At every step you have to ensure that you don’t loose your date and pass all the test from her side. Always keep in mind that Taiwan women never like if you lie to them so be honest with her as she may always remember you for your integrity and honesty. Is you are an internet savvy then you can always try and make use of online websites for Taiwan dating. There are thousands of singles who are always looking for developing relationship online. Thousands of Taiwan women are already looking around searching for new dates online so if you are interested you can get hooked with them.