Some western men use and toss out Taiwan women when they live or travel to Taiwan. An Taiwanese woman speaks bluntly about this common practice.
Question and Answer with Taiwanese Ladies.
WHY DO SOME TAIWANESE GIRLS LEAVE FOREIGNERS?
That’s because the men often hurt them emotionally. Sometimes Taiwanese girls get involved thinking it will be something exotic and dream-like, but it ends up nothing like they thought. In the end, they realize that some of them just want to get laid.
DO TAIWANESE GIRLS LEAVE FOREIGNERS DUE TO FAMILY PRESSURE?
Yes, but that’s not the main reason. If the Taiwanese girl really likes the foreigner the parents often will support them.
DO TAIWANESE GIRLS ABANDON FOREIGNERS WITHOUT SAYING GOODBYE?
Yes, for a few reasons. First, the parents of the girl are usually very conservative and traditional and won’t allow their daughter to marry a foreigner whose culture is much different than theirs. Communication or lack thereof, is also a big factor. It could also be that they’re not sure if they want to be with this man. Maybe it’s just a fling with someone from another country that wasn’t meant to get too personal.
Another common reason is that the Taiwanese girl is waiting too long for her man to propose. Then one day she wakes up and realizes that no matter how long she waits, he won’t settle down. He also could have cheated.
WHY DO YOU THINK FOREIGNERS BREAK UP WITH TAIWANESE GIRLS?
I think foreigners don’t plan on getting married to Taiwanese girls, they just want to have fun during their stay. As they say, “getting a quickie” is easy for them so they just keep doing it and think they can get any girl they want. They think, “Why not just enjoy the moment?” and become a player.
A Taiwanese girl who has dated a foreigner before usually starts out with little expectations, since she’s dating a foreigner who could leave at any time. At first she lets time take its course, but once she gets involved deeper she’ll begin to think about the future with the foreigner. Although, I think it’s like that in the west, too.
DO YOU ALSO THINK IT DEPENDS ON THE FOREIGNER?
Yes. The couple must have the same expectations in order for the relationship to work. Unfortunately, cultural differences get in the way. When a Taiwanese girl is sure of any man, she wants to marry him as soon as possible. In the west, couples have a tendency to grow into marriage.
HOW DO TAIWANESE GIRLS HANDLE ‘BEING DUMPED?’
Break ups are different depending on the personality. No matter what culture, you’re going to hear horror stories about break-ups. There is always a period of fighting towards the end of any relationship, but when the love is gone, it’s gone. The smart way is break up in peace and just remember the good times I think it’s best to let it go and find your true happiness. Just say, “that’s your loss.” IT!